Love matter's..!!!

  

I was in college...and whenever I am in college, I have to make a visit to the washroom.

I don't consider myself among one of those pretty dolls, but my brother says I have transformed into this typical "teenage" girl...And I think bothering about my looks is okay...!! Its normal i guess..!!


Yea..so once I entered the washroom and I found these so very nice looking sensible girls.. writing something on the wall which got me taken a back.
They wrote

" VIRGINITY IS NOT A LOSS OF DIGNITY..BUT IT'S A LOSS OF OPPORTUNITY.." ..!!!!!!

They looked at it wickedly, proudly giggled and went away..!!! I was shocked..!!!


On my way back home, I get a call from my friend who sounded very depressed..!!!

My friends often have this tendency to discuss all their issues with me.. That's merely all the sad stuff that happen to their life...!!

I wonder why don't they tell me all the talk's which excite them and bring happiness..?!! Anyway...!!

She told me that she had a breakup with her boyfriend..her family was in financial crises..her elder brother although being 26 still doesn't earn.. and she went on and on.

All she was exited about was that she would be meeting a very close friend.. They had planned to meet at his residence.

I was glad that she was meeting her friends and trying to be happy until she told me that they planed to get physical..
May be he lusted for her, and she thought getting physical would rather leave her with pleasure and take her depression away..!!!
I wasn't all that happy.. I was a little skeptical of her decision..!!!


I am 17... And I know exactly how a 17 year old mind works.

According to me "Love" is the most beautiful emotion.. love is inexplicable yet it could be expressed in various ways..

emotionally.. verbally.. silently.. and even through physicality..

And its depressing when "Love" no more remains what it is meant to be..!!

When you are in a relationship.. there are various emotions that attach you to the person you love.. trust, care , affection, possessiveness , jealousy, a lot of emotions..

Being physical in a relationship with the person you love enhances the relationship and blooms the sense of oneness and togetherness! Rather the bond between them becomes strong..and it remains pure and serene!!!

But this thought is lost in the modernized human mind.

Now days, I see that "Love" is gradually losing itself under the cover of "Lust"...!!! It is more about making use of each other's bodies without any feelings, any emotions attached. In simple words, without any strings attached.

I don't know if just lusting for a person is right or wrong...

But it is not acceptable to me when lust is flourished in the name of love!!!!

If you choose to be physical with the person without any emotions attached, if you are comfortable doing so and if you think you are ready for the same, then go for it.
But a thing to be kept in mind is that, lusting for a person and claiming it to be love, is not the best thing to do.